Everyday Value

By | July 21, 2013

It’s a busy world and, those everyday contacts you make might be overlooked as a source of interest and information. To know, you need to stop and think as you move through your day. Every one has a story and something of interest to share. We need to ask and listen to learn, assuming there is time for them to speak with you. (Keep your queries brief so you don’t interfere with their tasks.)

The grocery produce worker can tell you about the freshest produce but may also know about unusual ways to prep the produce.

The farmers’ market stall owner may share background on how to grow their products in your region or unique recipes to try with their foods.

The bookstore owner or worker will know the latest books or be able to contact you when books on your reading list arrive. They may also share author sites, related online connections and direct you to new ideas related to your interests.

The department store clerk may have a flair for creating outfits or hints of coming trends or special uses for their department products.

Recently I traveled to a new-to-me part of the country. I found that most people were anxious to share their regional sites and markets, drives and attractions if I asked. Those simple questions led to further brief  conversations, shared smiles and great information. I could have read about the sites, etc, but speaking with a ‘local’ proved more interesting as well as better information. We connected briefly and both came away with new information.

Of course, these are obvious. But how often do we take the time to ask those second questions to open the next door into a brief conversation with everyday workers? If we set the example for our children, they may become more accustomed to asking second and third questions of people they encounter every day. Those extra questions lead to receiving more information and connections, both valuable in today’s world of  less face-to-face contact.